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Month: October 2018

The Instagrammer’s Guide To London

No matter how many times I go to London, I find there’s always something new to discover. On my last trip, I stayed with some New Zealand friends and the time before that, a high school friend who was attending London School of Economics. This trip was a blogging trip and the first time that I opted for a hotel.

If you’ve never been to London before, you’ll immediately notice just how expensive everything is. Of course, you can find affordable options if you’re looking, but it’s not the place to go if you’re after a cheap getaway. That said, taking the underground is the best way to get around, it’s super efficient, convenient and surprisingly affordable. I spent just over 50 pounds on my Oyster Card for the week and that includes one trip to the airport via Gatwick Express. Oh, and all the galleries and museums are free, so you can save your money for accommodation and eating out.

I spent the week with my friend and fellow foodie, Isabelle and we prioritised visiting cafés and restaurants and creating content for the gram (and the blog). Although I’ve shared London recommendations in the past, this is the most current list for anyone visiting London within the next few years.

Art and Culture:

Somerset House is an arts centre in the heart of London. It offers a diverse public programme of contemporary arts and culture.

Tate is an institution that houses, in a network of four art museums, the United Kingdom’s national collection of British art, and international modern and contemporary art. If you haven’t been, be sure to add Tate Britain and Tate Modern to your sightseeing itinerary.

There’s so much to see, do and experience at Kew Gardens that it’s worth planning ahead. We dedicated our afternoon to exploring Palm House, Temperate House and The Hive, which is a temporary installation, but could have easily spent an entire day here.

Palm House: An iconic Victorian glasshouse, the rainforest climate inside supports a unique collection of tropical plants from some of the most threatened environments on Earth.

Temperate House: The largest Victorian glasshouse in the world is home to an internationally important collection of temperate zone plants, including some of the rarest and most threatened.

The Hive: A unique, multi-sensory experience designed to highlight the extraordinary life of bees. A feat of British engineering, it stands 17 metres tall, set in a wildflower meadow.

Cafés:

Ozone Coffee Roasters is hands-down my favourite place for a flat white. It’s owned by two New Plymouth sisters, so you know the coffee will be superb. You might recall I visited the New Zealand outpost when I was in Taranaki last year, so I made a point of visiting the UK branch. I suggest coming here for breakfast, especially if you’re craving a traditional Kiwi feed with poached eggs, sautéed spinach, halloumi, roasted tomatoes and hashbrowns!

AllPress is another New Zealand café and roastery. It’s actually my preferred espresso roast in New Zealand. We visited the Shoreditch location on Redchurch Street (my favourite street for eating and shopping in London!) and loved both the space and the coffee. Grab a seat on the bench and spend a few minutes (or hours) people watching.

Peggy Porschen Cakes is one of the most Instagrammed spots in London and it isn’t difficult to see why. The cupcake shop boasts a light pink exterior that’s decorated every season. We visited just before Halloween and loved the pastel pumpkins and ghosts.

We ventured to Élan Café on our second to last day in London. Initially, we anticipated a beautiful café without a substantial (or quality) food offering, but we were wrong! Not only were the Middle Eastern dishes inventive, they were filling, delicious and beautifully presented.

Restaurants

Duck and Waffle is a must-visit whenever you’re in London, but especially for the first-timer. Located on the 40th floor of the Heron Tower, the views are seriously incredible. Isabelle and I had a window seat with stunning views of the skyline (we were ridiculously close to the Gherkin and the Tower Bridge). Order the duck and waffle because it’s the namesake dish and mouthwateringly delicious!

Located on a trendy street of hotels, bars, and shops in Hackney, Genesis is a brand-new entirely plant-based (and all-pink) eatery. Not only is the interior super ‘grammable, the food is remarkable! I even returned the next day for a kale caesar and kombucha (because, balance!) Whether you’re vegan or not, I 100% recommend this spot! It was my top pick during our week in London.

There are so many great pizza joints in London, but Pizza East was our all-time favourite. Yes, the pizza’s good but OH MY GOODNESS, the macaroni and cheese is life-changing. It’s the ultimate comfort food for when the temperatures drop.

Isabelle recommended a gorgeous wee French bistro whilst we were in Soho. Not only is Le Café Bohème beautifully understated, there was live music when we visited and guests spilling onto the streets. I was reminded of my time in Paris as we indulged in shoestring fries and some greens (for balance, ya know?) The drink menu also looked excellent, so I’ll have to return for a negroni or two.

Located on the first floor of the Town Hall Hotel, the light-filled Corner Room is a place where neighbourhood folk and visitors can hang out any time of the day. The menu showcases bold flavours and seasonal dishes with a French flair.

Other favourites include Saint Aymes for beautiful freshly baked goods, Bubblewrapwaffle (Hello Kitty waffles, anyone?) and Biscuiteers for the most adorable iced biscuits I’ve ever seen. They certainly make beautiful souvenirs! Mister Fitz is an Australian ice cream shop (I actually visited when I was in Brisbane) with a seasonal pop-up in London’s Soho neighbourhood.

Shopping

Conservatory Archives is the most millennial of plant shops. Located in Hackney, this space is filled with plants of every variety. With the aim of bringing “more plants in our lives”, you’ll find a gorgeous assortment of plants hanging from every shelf and will undoubtedly be tempted to take something home with you.

I was in the market for a new medium-sized suitcase and was thrilled to discover one of AWAY‘s few brick and mortar shop in Soho. I opted for the pink case and I am officially obsessed.

Goodhood is Shoreditch’s lifestyle destination and a favourite local spot for a global and well-curated selection of both men’s and women’s clothing as well as homeware.

I fell for AIDA, an independent concept store in Shoreditch. Combining Scandinavian inspired men’s and women’s clothing, homeware and delicious, barista-made coffee, it’s no wonder this is a must-visit for locals and visitors.

Labour and Wait offers a wide range of timeless, functional products for daily life.

Stay

We were lucky to stay at two different hotels during our time in London. The first was Ace Hotel in Shoreditch, which we both agreed was in the perfect location. East London is my favourite part of the city, it’s artsy, creative, fashionable and gritty. Here, we were spoiled for choice in terms of where to eat, drink, shop and even workout! If you’re hoping to stay active, I can’t recommend 1Rebel enough!

A bit more off the beaten track, but still central was Artist Residence. One of four properties, this boutique hotel has an international reputation for its luxurious rooms and suites. We were invited to stay in the Grand Suite and it was divine.

Photos by both Isabelle Cheng and myself.

October 28, 2018
Authenticity, Oversharing and the New Age of Instagram

Instagram’s evolved considerably since I first downloaded the app back in 2010. At first, I only used it to edit (add filters) to my photos before sharing them on Facebook. Eventually, I began using it to share the occasional holiday snap or sunset before it became my main platform in 2013 whilst living in Toronto. Working for a bridal magazine, I became friends with a blogger and fellow editor who was an active Instagram user and soon began documenting our seemingly glamorous lives. In reality, we were barely scraping by in an industry that desperately needed to be disrupted.

In the beginning, Instagram was used mostly by creatives, photographers and editors, or at least those were the accounts I followed. I craved an inside look into their covetable careers and social lives. Even though most content was shot on an iPhone, it was beautifully styled and curated. I still love following accounts who offer a simple and aesthetic glimpse into every day life.

Instagram today involves over sharing and a scramble towards showcasing your most ‘authentic’ self, whatever that means. In some communities, it means showing your face without makeup and having a rant about whatever’s on your mind that day. In other settings, authenticity means showing the behind-the-scenes of a photoshoot. That said, I do appreciate the democratization of the industry because it means anyone with a smartphone and an opinion now has a platform and a way to share their experience.

I’ve observed the way Instagram and social media are used in both North America and Australasia by both individuals and businesses. While I understand this desire to be transparent, in this age of information overload, I still admire a bit of restraint and consideration. Parents are missing important moments with their kids and couples are having less sex because they bring their phones to bed. (Though that’s another conversation entirely…)

Personally, I have experimented with sharing more and giving more of myself to my platforms. It makes for a successful formula and allows you to connect with a larger audience. But there’s only so much of yourself to give. What happens when you’re unable to put your phone down on the weekend because it’s part of your job? I’ve had multiple conversations with fellow bloggers who feel guilty for not immediately responding to their DMs. I was chatting to a friend at NZFW who was previously an avid vlogger. He’s since stopped because he said he was never present for his actual friends and family, constantly hunched over his phone. He was no longer able to save anything for himself. That truly resonated with me and it’s something I think of often…

There are pitfalls to this new age of Instagram, many of which have been well documented. I’m still trying to strike a balance between showing up for my audience while still reserving space for myself and my loved ones. On one hand, I applaud bloggers who discuss everything from miscarriages to depression on their channels; knowing they might help even one person feel less alone. To be able to connect with people around the world, especially those who feel insignificant or ignored, is a truly incredible endeavour.

Where do you stand as a blogger or content creator? Are there limits to what you’ll share or are you an open book?

Photography by Nancy Zhou.

October 12, 2018
How To Win In Berlin

I always knew I’d eventually visit Berlin, it was only a matter of time. When my friend Alice moved here from Christchurch, I knew it was the perfect opportunity to see the city through a local lens. She’s now lived in the German capital for six months and has an incredible grasp on everything worth experiencing. I spent a week with her, taking in the city’s extensive and often troubling history, cycling from neighbourhood to neighbourhood, drinking the best coffee and eating the best falafel (there’s plenty of it!)

If it’s your first time in Berlin, I’d highly suggest kicking things off with a walking tour. These are typically free, although you’ll need to tip the guide at the end. I opted for the Sandeman Walking Tour, which was approximately 2.5 hours long and took us to most of the major historical landmarks. Our guide, Sam Noble was incredibly knowledgable, delving into WWI and WWII history and explaining everything thoroughly. Beginning at the Brandenburg Gate (which you absolutely must visit anyway), you’ll see the Berlin Wall, Checkpoint Charlie, Berlin Opera House, Berlin Cathedral and several more sights. It’s an excellent starting point if you’re unsure where to dedicate your energy. If it’s your first time in Germany, they also offer concentration camp tours, which are a confronting yet essential part of any visit.

Once you’ve had your introductory tour, you’ll be all set to visit a few more sights. East Side Gallery is the largest open air gallery in the world (featuring 105 pieces of street art) and another way to take in the Berlin Wall. Take in some of the most famous pieces, like the Socialist Fraternal Kiss by Dmitri Wrubel and work by Thierry Noir, who was the original street art to grace the Wall. There are plenty of up and coming artists who get their start here as well. Despite being a popular tourist spot, you won’t encounter swarms of tourists and the stroll along the wall is quite pleasant.

Now that we’ve covered the absolute sightseeing essentials, I thought I’d break up my Berlin favourites into neighbourhoods since Berlin can feel a bit overwhelming otherwise. Alice took me all over town, from Kreuzberg to Friedrichshain, so let’s dive in.

Kreuzberg:
The creative, gritty and alternative area of Berlin, Kreuzberg is the centre of the city’s large Turkish-German community. The neighbourhood has gentrified over the past few years and is now a hub for creative types. When I asked friends where to go in Berlin, the majority led me to cafés, vintage shops and bars in Kreuzberg.

Hallesches Haus is a general store, lunchroom and event space with some of the best food I had in Berlin. It’s worth stopping here for coffee and breakfast.

Brammibal’s Donuts is a gorgeous vegan donut and coffee shop on the river. Not only are the donuts delicious, they’re vegan. Try a matcha with oat milk while you’re there. If you can time your visit with the Turkish markets, even better. There are two other locations in Berlin.

Voo Store: A concept store and meeting place for creative people. The carefully curated selection of womenswear and menswear is beautifully displayed. The in-house café, Companion Coffee is lovely, so bring your laptop (or a book) and stay awhile.

Turkish Markets: Kreuzberg is home to a big Turkish community. Every Tuesday and Friday the area comes to life as vendors set up shop along the canal for the city’s largest Turkish market, which stretches between Kreuzberg and Neukölln. Here you’ll find interesting street food, fruit and veggie stalls and tables stacked with fabrics. Cash is a must, and a sneaky haggle might work if you play your cards rights.

Görlitzer Park: Along with being a popular green space for Berliners, this park is notorious for selling canabis.

Mitte:
Mitte is the most central and diverse district in Berlin. It has stunning architecture and museums. You’ll be spoiled for choice on how to spend your time and money in this area.

Berliner Dom/Berlin Cathedral: Although it was heavily bombed during World War Two, this imposing cathedral has been beautifully restored to the architectural marvel it has always been, from the distinctive exterior to the exacting detail of the ceiling. Guided tours as well as audio guides are available and tell visitors fascinating anecdotes and facts as well as illuminating the many historical aspects of the cathedral.

Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe: This striking space is composed of concrete blocks right in the centre of the city. Also known as the Holocaust Memorial, it resembles a cemetery and a visit here is sobering.

The Barn: One of the most well-known local cafés, brewing coffee in every third-wave variety.

Five Elephant: Another outstanding coffee shop, plus they have soft-serve (!) in a lovely, sparsely decorated space.

Father Carpenter Coffee Brewers: Tucked away on a laneway just off the main drag, Father Carpenter is a must for excellent breakfast and coffee in the cosiest environment. It’s a great stop off if you’re hitting up a few of Mitte’s shops.

Prenzlauer Berg:
Bonanza Coffee: One of the earlier specialty coffee shops in Berlin, Bonanza is beautiful and stark. The minimalist café is known for its quality pours and delicious baked goods by Albatross. It was my favourite coffee and pastry of the week.

Mauerpark: Come on Sunday for the thrift market and karaoke. Mauerpark is a must-visit during the warmer months.

Curry 36: I found it mildly amusing how the various currywurst shops scattered throughout Berlin were numbered. I’m told Curry 36 serves up the best in the city, though I’m no curry connoisseur.

Friedrichshain
Home to much more than the famous club, Berghain, Friedrichshain is an interesting and eclectic neighbourhood. If you’re that way inclined, RAW, is Berlin’s most well-known row of nightclubs. Even if you’re not, it’s worth visiting during the day as it’s also home to a series of cultural events. There’s also a slew of cool secondhand shops, restaurants, parks and cafés. I didn’t spend too much time here, but here are some of the spots we hit up.

Not only is Shakespeare & Sons an excellent bookshop, it’s also home to the best bagels in Berlin. Fine Bagels also have challah, rugelach and schmears. Delish!

If you’re after secondhand goods, Boxhagener Platz has one of the best Sunday markets in Berlin. The grassy square also has a Saturday food market, a playground and play pool for the kids. Platz is also home to a great burger spot, authentic Asian restaurants, ice cream and coffee shops.

Michelberger Hotel: My sister, Stephanie spent a month in Berlin last summer and recommended Michelberger as a place to stay, but also as a café and coworking space. One thing I love about Berlin is how prevalent coworking spaces are and just how many freelancers and creatives appear to be flocking to these hubs.

Well, there you have my list of short and snappy Berlin must dos. It’s a big city, full of neighbourhoods, so be sure to explore it for yourself and find your own favourite spots.

October 8, 2018
Beauty Treatments Worth Investing In Before Your Wedding

We’re getting married early next year, so I’ve recently started thinking about our timeline leading up to the big day. In addition to all the other preparation involved in planning a wedding, it can be overwhelming to think about beauty commandments and skincare options. Navigating all the available options can be confusing, to say the least! Do I need monthly facials? What about teeth whitening and hair colouring? Should I get lash extensions or a lash lift? I’ve even heard about brides-to-be opting for more extreme measures before their wedding day.

Well, I’ve done the research for you and narrowed down the five treatments that I think are worth investing in before your wedding day.

1. Hair colour trial run
I’ve recently started experimenting with my hair colour after not having dyed it for five years. Whether you’re opting for a drastic hair colour change or just trying to find the perfect shade, colourists suggest getting it done three months out so you can see how it wears and ensure it’s exactly what you want for your day. If you’re happy, book in your final colour two weeks before your wedding date.

2. Henna brows: I’m a regular at The Pamper Bar in Ferrymead and have talked about my love affair with henna brows a lot on Instagram. If you’re unfamiliar with henna, it’s a natural tint that doesn’t use peroxide or ammonia to process. It soaks into the hair follicle more evenly than standard tints (ideal for grey and blonde hairs, but I find it perfect for my dark brown brows, too!) Depending on your skin type, henna lasts about 4 weeks on the hair, which is double the wear of a standard tint. The Pamper Bar team can also create a skin stain with henna that lasts up to one week — perfect for those who like a more defined brow or want to forfeit brow cosmetics day-to-day. They’ve got a range of colours that they customise to suit your needs. I love how henna accentuates my natural shape and fills in those gaps, so I don’t have to bother with brow makeup.

Photo by Ana Galloway

3. Lash tint and lift: I’m currently debating between a lash lift and tint (which I’ve had before and LOVED) and lash extensions for my wedding day. Lash lifts typically take 45 minutes to an hour, depending on whether you’re having your brows done as well. Lash lifts last about 6-8 weeks, depending on growth cycles, ideal for those who are heading away on a honeymoon right after the wedding.

I’ve previously shied away from extensions because I used to wear false eyelashes for dance and the extremity of extensions freaks me out a bit. That said, The Pamper Bar offers a range of thicknesses and lengths to customize different lash looks. For brides, the team recommends a trial for extensions to ensure both parties are on the same page. It’s even better if the trial can coincide with your makeup trial.

4. Teeth whitening
Having pearly whites for my wedding day is definitely priority for me. I’m generally pretty happy with my teeth, but also pretty addicted to coffee, so know I’ll need to buy some whitening strips a month or so before our wedding. I initially considered professional whitening, but I want to make sure my teeth don’t look unnaturally white. The salon brightening strips at The Pamper Bar are a happy medium, so I’ll be trialling those later next year.

5. Facials and LED Therapy
Many brides-to-be opt for facials (be it microdermabrasion or chemical peels) during the months leading up to their weddings. I recently tried an Ultraceuticals Vitapeel facial, which is a medical-grade chemical peel that helped address my acne, hyperpigmentation, fine lines, wrinkles and sun spots. The results were INCREDIBLE and a natural way to make skin look younger.

In addition to more intensive facials, LED therapy is a relaxing way to treat any skin concern. From acne to rosacea to ageing, the non-invasive treatment uses specific colour light to treat the concern. Each colour light emits a different wavelength in to the skin, which triggers your skin’s response to help heal your skin concern. For example, blue light kills acne-causing bacteria while red light balances skin tones, increases fibroblasts and collagen. Each treatment starts with a cleanse and exfoliation followed by 20 minutes under affectionately named Larry the LED light. The Pamper Bar team then finishes with an eye cream, serum, toner and moisturiser. For extra relaxation, your hands and arms are massaged and the total treatment takes 30 minutes.

“If you’re wanting your skin to be extra plump and glowy, we recommend three treatments per week for two weeks before the big day,” says The Pamper Bar owner, Deneale Knox.

“With skin concerns like acne, we suggest getting started a few months out and have a course of three treatments for a month before beginning a maintenance plan once we establish how your skin is responding.”

While there are seemingly endless treatments you can invest in before your wedding day, try not to get too carried away. For me, my skin is where I’ve chosen to splurge because clear, glowing skin makes me feel most confident. My advice is to figure out what’s most important to you and focus on feeling your absolute best. The months leading up to your wedding day can be stressful AF (believe me, I know…) so spending a bit of time having a facial or treating yourself to a pedicure is a great way to unwind. It’s going to be one of the most important days of your life, so have fun and it’ll show!

This post was sponsored by The Pamper Bar, but all opinions expressed are my own.

October 5, 2018