Category: Instagram

  • Authenticity, Oversharing and the New Age of Instagram

    Authenticity, Oversharing and the New Age of Instagram

    Instagram’s evolved considerably since I first downloaded the app back in 2010. At first, I only used it to edit (add filters) to my photos before sharing them on Facebook. Eventually, I began using it to share the occasional holiday snap or sunset before it became my main platform in 2013 whilst living in Toronto. Working for a bridal magazine, I became friends with a blogger and fellow editor who was an active Instagram user and soon began documenting our seemingly glamorous lives. In reality, we were barely scraping by in an industry that desperately needed to be disrupted.

    In the beginning, Instagram was used mostly by creatives, photographers and editors, or at least those were the accounts I followed. I craved an inside look into their covetable careers and social lives. Even though most content was shot on an iPhone, it was beautifully styled and curated. I still love following accounts who offer a simple and aesthetic glimpse into every day life.

    Instagram today involves over sharing and a scramble towards showcasing your most ‘authentic’ self, whatever that means. In some communities, it means showing your face without makeup and having a rant about whatever’s on your mind that day. In other settings, authenticity means showing the behind-the-scenes of a photoshoot. That said, I do appreciate the democratization of the industry because it means anyone with a smartphone and an opinion now has a platform and a way to share their experience.

    I’ve observed the way Instagram and social media are used in both North America and Australasia by both individuals and businesses. While I understand this desire to be transparent, in this age of information overload, I still admire a bit of restraint and consideration. Parents are missing important moments with their kids and couples are having less sex because they bring their phones to bed. (Though that’s another conversation entirely…)

    Personally, I have experimented with sharing more and giving more of myself to my platforms. It makes for a successful formula and allows you to connect with a larger audience. But there’s only so much of yourself to give. What happens when you’re unable to put your phone down on the weekend because it’s part of your job? I’ve had multiple conversations with fellow bloggers who feel guilty for not immediately responding to their DMs. I was chatting to a friend at NZFW who was previously an avid vlogger. He’s since stopped because he said he was never present for his actual friends and family, constantly hunched over his phone. He was no longer able to save anything for himself. That truly resonated with me and it’s something I think of often…

    There are pitfalls to this new age of Instagram, many of which have been well documented. I’m still trying to strike a balance between showing up for my audience while still reserving space for myself and my loved ones. On one hand, I applaud bloggers who discuss everything from miscarriages to depression on their channels; knowing they might help even one person feel less alone. To be able to connect with people around the world, especially those who feel insignificant or ignored, is a truly incredible endeavour.

    Where do you stand as a blogger or content creator? Are there limits to what you’ll share or are you an open book?

    IMG_6484

    Photography by Nancy Zhou.

     

  • 8 Ways To Grow Your Online Following

    8 Ways To Grow Your Online Following

    Excuse the click-bait title, but I really wanted to share my tips and tricks for building an online audience. None of these recommendations involve cheating the system, so if you’re after quick fixes, please look elsewhere.

    Full disclosure: My online following was seriously stunted after I moved to Christchurch. When I left Toronto, my audience was growing pretty steadily, I was taking on some exciting opportunities and almost felt ready to work for myself full-time. Moving halfway around the world has meant a few steps backwards in my career. That said, I know numbers and followers aren’t everything (and can be deceiving), and there are many benefits to establishing an audience (basically) from scratch. In the process of trying to rebuild my following while staying true to my existing audience, I picked up a few tips that I want to share with those of you who might be in the same boat.

    Why are you online in the first place?
    My first piece of advice, if you’re feeling like you’re not growing or getting the engagement you’d like, is to step back and consider what you’re actually trying to achieve. If it’s just followers, you’re in it for the wrong reasons. Think about the reasons you started. Maybe it was a creative escape or to offer advice on a topic you’re passionate about… When you’re focused on why you’re online in the first place, you’ll stop focusing on the numbers.

    Build a connection
    Rather than working to build a following, work to build relationships and form connections within your community. I’ve heard many content creators talk about “going deep, not wide,” and this couldn’t be more true! If you’re able to impact one person in a positive way,  you’re doing your job. When I wrote about my anxiety, I received a couple emails from you guys telling me about your own experiences. Being able to relate to others (even from afar) is the reason I started this blog in the first place.

    Share the difficult stuff
    I’ve talked about this before, but social media shouldn’t just be a highlight reel of your greatest experiences and achievements. Keeping it real and sharing ‘behind-the-scenes’ makes you relatable, even if it’s in the form of Instagram stories. I’m all about sharing beautiful, aesthetically-pleasing Instagram shots, but I always try to write honest captions that reflect what I’m actually going through.

    Collaborate with other creators
    I love working with local photographers, writers and creatives. Part of the reason I wanted to share our wedding planning journey on here was to highlight the AMAZING local vendors here in Christchurch. Support and cheer each other on, there’s enough work (and space) for all of us. There’s so much to learn from others in your industry.

    Switch it up
    If you’re finding your content is falling flat, try switching it up. Maybe you started your blog with the intention of sharing only city guides, but they are no longer resonating with your audience. Don’t be afraid to veer away from your core topic to talk about your home renovation project. If people are following you, it’s likely they are interested in you and your story not just because they want travel tips.

    Use Instagram stories
    I love Instagram stories because I can share the messy, behind-the-scenes stuff that would never make it onto my feed. Consistency is key when building a brand, but on Instagram stories, you’re allowed to be a bit all over the place and talk about subjects that don’t usually make it on to your feed.

    Attend events
    We’re all guilty of spending too much time on our phones and laptops… I encourage you to get out, attend industry events and form human connections. I’ve met some of my closest friends at fashion and blogging events. Forming relationships with other bloggers is also key to growing your audience and getting approached about future projects.

    Don’t put all your eggs in one (Instagram) basket 
    Use social media to drive traffic to something you own (aka your blog). We’re all at the whim of the next Instagram algorithm change, so that account you’ve grown and those followers you’ve amassed aren’t really yours. Instagram could get shut down tomorrow or we could all move on to the next platform. It’s important to have your own online space that you’ve built yourself. 

    Another thing to consider if you’re stressing about your numbers is to focus more on your skills and offering. Are you a copywriter, a photographer or a digital marketer? Those are tangible skills that people are more likely willing to pay for. Don’t rely on your ‘influence’ too much. Continue challenging yourself by taking on new projects and adding value wherever you can.

    *

    While it’s taken me a long time to establish myself here in Christchurch, I am finally starting to see better engagement. More importantly, I’ve learnt so much working in-house at creative agencies and developed incredible relationships with local brands. While I think there have been a few setbacks, I do still believe moving around and travelling is super beneficial in the long-run. Not only does it enable you to expand your reach across continents, you’ll build better relationships and understand what works in different countries.

    If you’re a fellow content creator, let me know what’s worked for you.

  • How To Take Food Photos Without A Professional Camera

    How To Take Food Photos Without A Professional Camera

    Food photography has gained popularity in recent years with the rise of Instagram. If you search #foodphotography or #onthetable, you’ll see an eclectic mix of styled food shots that could easily belong in your favourite cookbook. Many of my Toronto friends are food stylists, food bloggers/writers and professional food photographers, however, unbeknownst to most – many of their photos are taken with a humble iPhone.

    The key to taking good food photos isn’t the quality of your lens, it’s all about positioning and lighting. Here are my super straightforward tips to getting a top notch photo  without much fuss!

    IMG_6984.JPG

    Dine during the daytime
    Is your reservation at 9PM in the middle of winter? Don’t expect to get a great food photo without natural light. That brings me to my next point…

    Sit near the window
    When I make restaurant bookings, I always request to be seated near a window. You’ll want natural light streaming in, but be wary of weird shadows on super sunny days! If you find yourself seated in the back corner, don’t bother. And never use flash!

    Wait until everything comes out
    I find this increasingly hard in Christchurch where I only know a handful of food Instagrammers and typically eat out with friends and Nick. If you look back to some of my Toronto shots – you’ll see that we’ve waited patiently until everyone’s meal has been served before whipping out our phones. Also, the more meals, the better. You want to showcase the best of what the restaurant has to offer.

    Processed with VSCO with a6 preset

    Be confident
    Sure, you might get a few stares or weird looks, but my friend, Isabelle (food stylist extraordinaire) says it best: “I just stare right back. The people who look at me funny for styling and photographing my food are the same people who are liking and marvelling at my content on Instagram,” which is definitely true in her case!

    Don’t be afraid to move things around…
    The best food photos, in my opinion, are carefully styled. Just like a chef artfully arranges the food on the plate, urging you to first eat with your eyes, so should the plates. Experiment with moving plates around, adding or removing cutlery and glasses, and add a hand to humanise the photo.

    Showcase unique elements of the restaurant
    While many of my food photos showcase just that, the food, I also try to tie in interesting elements of the café or restaurant I’m shooting. Whether it’s a tiled floor or a beautiful bar, capture café interiors are often as beautiful as the food itself!

    Processed with VSCOcam with a6 preset

    If you need some inspiration, I suggest following these accounts:
    allons.y
    food.diva
    didieryhc
    dialaskitchen
    danielaaebliphotography
    all_the_yumm
    rosaalyn
    thefoodnest
    charlierosecreative

    Are you into food photography? Tell me, what are your tips?

  • Simple Ways To Break Your Phone Addiction

    Simple Ways To Break Your Phone Addiction

    It’s Sunday morning and I can’t remember the last weekend I spent without my phone. In fact, I often spend hours mindlessly scrolling through my social media feeds, sometimes over dinner or while watching a movie. Creating and posting new content is a weekend ritual, especially for bloggers who feel the pressure to constantly create.

    As much as I love Instagram and all the inspiration it offers, it’s becoming increasingly time-consuming. Consistently posting, liking and commenting on all my favourite accounts means it’s all the more difficult to disconnect and spend time in the real world. I know I’m not alone in feeling this way, so here are a few easy ways to spend some time away from your phone:

    Explore a new area of town
    Leave your phone at home and go explore your city. Whether by foot or bike, heading out to see a different part of town is a surefire way to get the creative juices flowing. Have you been to the botanic gardens recently? Is there a new café you’ve been meaning to visit? Better yet, take a road trip to another city without the pressure to share the experience online.

    Exercise
    My workouts typically consist of runs around my neighbourhood or group classes at the gym. I’m always amazed by how great I feel after a sweat sesh; not only because of the endorphins but also the clarity from not having my phone surgically attached to me.

    Unplug at the dinner table
    As tempting as it is to order Uber Eats and watch Netflix, cooking a homemade meal is oh so satisfying. After months of feeling uninspired in the kitchen, Nick and I decided to give My Food Bag a whirl. We’ve both been loving the time spent preparing and savouring our meals. Dinnertime also feels more sacred when we spend more time preparing it, so neither of us want to reach for our phones.

    Try Float Therapy
    Floatation therapy helps reduce stress, repair muscles and offers quality time away from the screen. Read about my first floatation experience here. 

    At-Home Spa Night
    While it’s nice booking in for a massage or facial, you don’t need to break the bank to pamper yourself. Spend a few hours on your skincare routine at home, have a bath or paint your nails. There are many affordable ways to disconnect and feel rejuvenated.

    Are you addicted to your phone? What are your favourite ways to disconnect?

    5DMK6180

    5DMK6197

    5DMK6248

    5DMK6217

    Photography by Jillian Miller

  • The Ides of March

    The Ides of March

    March 15th, also known as The Ides of March became notorious as the date of the assassination of Julius Caesar. The Roman Senate had named Caesar dictator perpetuo (“dictator in perpetuity”) and fears grew that he would later dissolve the senate in favour of an absolute tyranny. This led to several senators to plot his assassination. Fear and desperation led the conspirators to stab Caesar twenty three times, they later proclaimed “People of Rome, we are once again free!”

    2058 years later, the bitterly cold tyranny of winter has gripped Toronto for too long. The freezing temperatures are no longer welcome mid-March, and a sense of fear and desperation is growing amongst the public. 

    March has never been my favourite month. Even as a child, unnecessary stress plagued me from all angles. It was always dance competition and music festival season, school seemed overwhelming while the weather was still non-compliant. Despite its downfalls, March has never been a stagnant month. Usually by the time April hits, I feel as though I’ve checked quite a few to-dos off my list.

    This week has been particularly noteworthy, from celebrating amazing news with friends (engagements, grad school acceptance letter, and new jobs! Hip hip hooray!) to finally buying a bicycle. Perhaps March isn’t so bad after all?

    Image

    Celebrating Mary’s acceptance into three of her top grad school picks, including John Hopkins University. This girl is nothing short of amazing!

    Torontonians soon will shake off the shackles of parkas, Sorels, and toques. They’ll embrace patios, sandals, and days on the Island. And we’ll proclaim, “people of Toronto, we are once again free!”

  • 13 Things I’m Loving Right Now

    13 Things I’m Loving Right Now

    1. Lorde’s alternate universe in her new Team video.

    2. Thai Iced Tea and Massaman curry from Khao San Road

    3. These over-the-knee socks from American Apparel.

    4. Toronto’s Christmas Market in the historic Distillery District (they have samples of mulled cine and hot scotch cider!)

    5. Travelling. I am planning something for 2014 already.

    6. My family and having my sisters in Toronto. I feel myself becoming the boring sister, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing.1174844_10201196570310700_1364538345_n
    7. December, it’s my birthday in two weeks, Christmas in three, and I have made a serious dent in my Advent calendar.

    8. Working from home, and achieving a work/life blend.

    9. #GivingTuesday because everyone was posting #unselfies and donating to worthy causes like Girls’ Education.

    10. Canadiana, Christmas pyjamas and ONESIES. Also, listening to Christmas carols at work. (I know, that’s technically four things)

    11. The upcoming nuptials of my friends, Jill and Riley.

    12. “Candles are expensive, and they don’t get you drunk.” Regardless, I’ve been burning candles like a madwoman.

    13. Awaiting a visit from my Kiwi friend, Ash!
    Image

  • September: As Told By Instagram

    September: As Told By Instagram

    If you’re not yet following me on Instagram, please check out my account: vanessaortynsky.

    IMG_6642

    IMG_6526

    Natalie and I getting ready for the ceremony!

    1234534_10201261157765346_1883342867_n

    My boyfriend, Nick and I grabbing a midday coffee following the wedding ceremony of two of our closest friends, Kirsten and Steve.

    IMG_6426

    Jake and I love tapas, especially snow crab pogos!

    IMG_6480

    Mary, one of my very best friends, is finally back from Kenya! We caught up over brunch at Saving Grace.

    IMG_6415

    I’ve been freelancing for just under a month, and I love writing and editing from the comfort of my apartment or favourite cafe.

    IMG_6435

    I’ve had a major sweet tooth as of late. This cookie inside a cookie really fit the bill.

    IMG_6636

    A little bit of TIFF fun.

    IMG_6489

    There’s nothing quite like flying home to Saskatchewan for the weekend. Nick and I enjoyed a few beverages in the Maple Leaf lounge prior to take-off.

    1240070_10201228434027273_1495162855_n

    Most importantly, Kirsten and Steve get married!

    That’s all, folks! Have a lovely Friday, the 13th! xxx

  • Twenty Reasons I Love Summer (Toronto Edition)

    Twenty Reasons I Love Summer (Toronto Edition)

    Image(Photo by Kimberly Pesch)

    1. Fashion is simple and baring one’s legs is perfectly acceptable.

    2. Pool parties with copious amounts of beverages and floatation devices are a thing.

    3. Havaianas are the closest I can get to walking around barefoot.

    4. I’m allowed to eat as much ice cream as I desire.

    5. Running outside (to counteract said ice cream) is far more pleasant in the (spring, fall and) summer months.

    6. There’s always something going on. Toronto comes ALIVE in the summertime.

    7. I’m allowed to laze by the lake for at least a week, maybe two.

    8. OSHEAGA Music Festival is the place to be during August long. And festival fashion is my kinda fashion.

    9. Exhibitions, fairs, carnivals (whatever you’d like to call ’em) are an excuse to eat mini donuts and candy apples, then scream your lungs out on rides called Vertigo and Gravitron.

    10. Dining outside is a daily occurrence.

    11. Baseball games are an affordable and fun way to spend an afternoon.

    12. The sunsets are breathtaking.

    13. TIFF in the Park is re-inventing and urbanizing the drive-in movie theatre.

    14. BBQs. Need I say more?

    15. It’s the perfect time to wear your favourite Karen Walker sunglasses! Harvest are my personal faves!

    16. Everyone is out and about, making the most of the season.

    17. Road trips are much more pleasant (and safe) in the summertime!

    18. Rooftop patios are a weekly (sometimes thrice weekly) thing.

    19. There’s nothing better than whiling away the afternoon at The Toronto Islands.

    20. Torontonians sport an abundance of amazing, well done tattoos, that are more visible in the summer months.